Selasa, 09 Februari 2010

tips slang in cyberspace

when you go in cyberspace, be careful when getting new friends, introduce yourself honestly and address but no telephone, unless the situation is more familiar.

recognize your friends carefully, see how he speaks and to socialize and ethics, never once said the word that contains elements that pension and other sensitive, do not end the sentence with the word love or affection, if there are new friends who ask you your pictures right to refuse.

Try to reply to messages received while in a little late to friends you do not feel the neglect,

When the friend did not seem to want to be friends with you anymore it's not in paksa.toh still many other friend.

Good hanging out in cyberspace yes ....

Senin, 08 Februari 2010

tips to keep it happy

self-respect, self-confident
-smile is sincere and sweet.
-kesalan forgive others.
-Make friends with everyone.
-never underestimate anyone.
-not matrealistis
respect the less fortunate
to lighten the mood with humor
-stay calm even though there is a problem
-vibrant and youthful
-sincerely care about your partner
-along with the rich, poor, beautiful or ugly.
-help your neighbor
sodakoh multiply-lot
very time-pamper yourself, to a beauty salon, or whatever you like, as long as positive.

Sabtu, 06 Februari 2010

10 SECRETS OF SELF MOTIVATING

1. Positive Affirmations

Our subconscious mind is a wonderful tool in determining the success or failure. He'll do what we tell and depends on the thoughts we enter. So, why not give positive thoughts into your mind. Here are some examples of affirmations you can feed your inner mind to achieve success:

* Today I will succeed, because I have faith, courage, and enthusiasm.

* I see failure as a signpost on the road to success.

* When I feel depressed, I will relax and release the pressure before the next task.

* I'll write down my priorities, thinking about responsibility. Maybe I was not able to finish everything, but I will do the most productive thing at every moment there.

* I am a winner, I work for a winning organization, and because of contribution and cooperation we will keep on winning.

* Today, I see opportunity in every challenge offered to me.





2. Positive language

Recent research shows that 75% of the daily conversation is negative, whether the language we use verbal or body language. We need to communicate with a positive attitude at all times.

Here are some examples of how you can turn negative words into positive communication:

* Instead of saying "a problem", called the "opportunity"

* Rather than consider an action as a "failure", described as "learning experience".

* Instead of saying "I have to", say "I choose to ..." This will control the actions back to you.

* Instead of saying, "There's nothing I can do", saying, "Let us look at the alternatives".

* Instead of saying "That's me", saying, "I chose a different approach".

* Instead of saying, "He made me mad", saying, "I control my feelings".

3. Practice

A Gallup survey found men and women who have been practicing:

* 66% reported a more relaxed life

* 62% find new energy sources

* 55% less stress

* 51% better performance

* 46% more confident

* 45% of life a better love

* 44% satisfaction greater job

* 37% more creative on the job.

These are great motivators to exercise! When you feel demotivated, give your body. Research shows that taking the time three times a week for 15 minutes, providing great effect.

4. Taking Risks

We live in our comfort zone, avoid situations that create risks, avoid potential failures. However, to face the competition in front and control the change of life, you have to get out of your comfort zone. Start with one simple step. Trying something new small, with a different approach. Simple way by taking different routes to and from work. Occasionally I like to go through the "road less traveled" to hone creativity. Then, keep stepping outside your zone. At first may seem uncomfortable. However, the more you do, the more it will seem natural and you will see an increase in the core of creativity and opportunities you never thought about before.

5. Positive Reading

Read the lives of successful people. Make sure you only read that reflects the success of all time. Not the "success today, scandal tomorrow" that we have today. People like Herb Kelleher (Southwest Airlines), Fred Smith (Federal Express), Mary Kay Ash (Mary Kay), Benjamin Franklin, Abraham Lincoln, Mahatma Gandhi, and Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr., is a good example. They are the people who face many challenges, created real value for others, or change other people's lives for the better.

6. Positive Visualization

Condition yourself to paint your vision of success. One of the best ways to do is to:

* Go to a quiet place in the home or other places. Turn off the radio, television and so on.

* Sit in a comfortable chair and relax the mind.

* Start thinking about goals you want to accomplish. Remember, visualize as if you have achieved this goal.

* Visualizing the important steps taken to achieve success. The better your visualization, where you will see, feel, hear, and touch the vision, the more real for you.

* Visualization challenges that arise in your journey and how to handle it.

* Visualize how it felt to complete this goal. Visualize the benefits that you, your family, friends, colleagues, get. Enjoy the moment!

Important to remember: If you do not take time to see it, it will not happen!

7. Think Big

See the big picture in everything we do. A lot of time wasted on things that are not important in our lives. We were created to make a difference. We make a difference for families, communities, organizations, and ourselves. All our actions must be done with this concept in mind. Think a little bigger today than yesterday, and you will make the future better the next day. Thinking big leads to great actions. Thinking small leads to small results. So Think BIG!.

8. Set Goals

The fastest way to fail in life is not made clear goals. Set goals for financial, family, health, spiritual, and careers. Your goal should be tight with the SMART technique.

* S - Specific

* M - Measurable (can be measured)

* A - Attainable (achievable)

* R - Realistic

* T - Time-based (time base)

For example, you have a goal of achieving $ 2 million for retirement in the next twenty years. After doing research, your SMART goals are:

"I'll get a $ 2 million for retirement in the year 2024. I will do this by contributing $ 20K, or $ 1667 per month, for a pension fund per year. From $ 20K per year, $ 2k will be stored in the IRA and $ 18 went into the program retirement organization. "

Remember the most detail you can add, the more realistic your goal.

9. Positive Appearance

Super achievers are very careful about their appearance and their movements. They know that looking good translates into feeling good. Billy Crystal, star of screen and Saturday Night Life, never played a character known by the words, "better to look good than to feel good." What he was really saying is the concept of "fake it until you succeed". In other words, when we feel sad, then think positively and your mind will tell your body to act positively. Also always dress of an achiever. Follow the style of dress, actions, and behaviors of successful people and reflects the value of long-term success of the success of these people. It will also tell your mind that you are an achiever.

10. Helping each other

Develop a desire to help each other. Share your talents without expecting rewards, awards or recommendation. And your good deeds secret.

If you apply the techniques to help others, are automatically returned to you many times over. First, the pleasure of having a particular talent that can make other people's lives better. Second, because you are not looking for him, the words about you and your kindness will spread. This is to be translated into opportunities and unexpected wealth. Third, you'll get a level of confidence that the new pages where you can make a difference. Super achievers find motivation and meaning by helping others.

Source: Ed Skyes, a speaker, writer, and trainer in the field of leadership, motivation, stress management, customer service and team building.

Jumat, 05 Februari 2010

Positive science

Hi fren, how are you? Welcome to my blog, here I want to discuss the importance of positive science, with a positive we can live more peaceful and happy.

Just look around us, most people are always complaining, feeling themselves no luck, always difficult, whether you are including org like that?

Let's get started ......

The mind is a measure to choose the good and bad, with brpikir we can distinguish the useful and useless, the halal and the haram, think is the important part that can distinguish between humans and animals, plants and objects other him.
So ... get used to choose the best minds and the right, in order to become accustomed to think positive.

Of course, need guidance, if we are thinking that lead to negative then our attitude, our personality, whatever we do will be negative and even more negative impact generated would be bad.

Conversely, if our minds towards a positive direction so whatever we do will be more positive and the impact generated would be nice as well.

Every day we would experience a negative thing, but if we had used to direct our thoughts toward a better right, god willing, automatically whatever we do will get a good response, too.

Do not continue to channel the thoughts of repeating bad, because it would be a bad influence on our soul.
Get used to think a good well. if there is a bad passing in our minds is the quick fast far far away those negative thoughts and go back to the positive things only.

smile ....
Would you believe? that a smile can break the negative things, you just try to smile when you're angry, upset, or emotion, force, force a smile on your lips, and prhatikan what you feel, you will feel superior, lighter, and your emotions will quickly subsided.

Indeed siiih ... There are no perfect human beings yes, but what's wrong if you want to learn to think positively so close to perfect, there's no good man completely and there is no completely bad man.
If there are people who hate us just assume that they are right because everybody has a right to act against his environment, which is important we continue to think positively about them.

Proverb says:
"ANY that ye have gained, GOD WILL REPLY WITH A PERFECT"

Apparently the bad attitude / personality begins with our habitual ways of thinking lo ... if we are accustomed to think bad things then tenteng a trait we'll be getting worse, getting worse, and continued to deteriorate, eventually everything we do will always be bad.

- The negative thoughts that constantly re can cause psychological, physical illness, stress and depression.
positive thoughts in continuously re going to make us happy and healthy always spiritual body.

Important: do not ever think or repeat the word a bad word, such as insults, slander, speak ill of others, putting others down, and saying other bad words it.

Important; we better get used to repeat the good things like, good manners, ethics, smiling, socializing, and all the positive things.

gold points;
Habits of the constantly repeated it would be extraordinary skill.
sorry, if I am writing an extension, perhaps there is something wrong I apologize.
And thanks so used to .....

Kamis, 04 Februari 2010

Culture Indramayu

Culture that until now still a part of society, among others Nadran Indramayu, Ngarot Ceremony, Networking, visitors, Mapag Tamba, and Alms Sri Mapag Earth.

nadranNadran, this ceremony is a reflection of the relationship between humans and the creator of expressions of gratitude will catch fish and expect to increase future results and ditahun dropped from disasters and dangers in making a living at sea. Generally Nadran ceremonies were held between October and December are held at the Beach tow, Dadap, Karangong, Limbangan Glayem, Bugel and Ujung Gebang.

Ngarot Ceremony, this ceremony is one of the traditional ceremony that since the 16th century up to now still organized primarily by the village community towards Lelea each rice cultivation. The ceremony is held in order to apply to get an abundance of agricultural products. Ngarot ceremonial or kasinoman held every Wednesday, the fourth week of November, where the participants were young people with typical costumes and glittering accessories.

Network, namely ceremony teenagers which aims to find spouses who dialaksanakan every full moon night. This activity is located in the village KANDANGHAUR Parean District.

Visitors, the celebration ceremony held at the graves that are considered sacred, usually held in Syuro, Mulud.

Mapag Tamba, namely upcara conducted in order to expel the disease, by way of bringing extra water into a bamboo pipe that comes from Source to Kasepuhan or sprayed into the flowing water in the paddy rice field located in the village limits.

Mapag Sri, is the ceremony held in order to express gratitude to the creator of the arrival of the harvest, by way of conducting puppet arts performances day and night with a special play and usually held in Town Hall.

Alms Earth, is a ceremony held by the farmer at the time of going to rain working fields. Usually done at the beginning of the rainy season is around October and December. This ceremony procession started from somewhere community gathering conducted with a prayer and then performed the customary ceremony.

Rabu, 03 Februari 2010

leadership

In everyday life, people are always in need of
leaders. In the household life necessary to
leader or head of the Family. There in a State President.

This all shows how important the position of leader in a
community, both in small scale especially large scale.

From the introduction above, once felt and imagined how the
view of the "leader" who has a position very
important, therefore anyone who becomes a leader should not be
and not to abuse his leadership to the things that
not true.

Therefore, the leaders and people led to understand
the nature of leadership in-depth view of the following:

1. Responsibility, Not Features.

When a person appointed or designated to preside over an institution
or institution, so he actually carry a big responsibility
as a leader who should be able to account for mempertanggung,.

Not only of men but also before God. Because
that office in all levels or levels is not a
privilege so that a leader or official can not
feel a special human being that he felt should be
favored and he was very angry when others do not
privileging himself.

2. Sacrifice, No Facilities

Being a leader or officer is not to enjoy the luxury or
pleasures of life with a pleasant worldly facilities,
but instead he must be willing to make sacrifices and show the sacrifice, let alone
when he leads the community in difficult conditions and
very difficult.

Since it became strange when the state budget or
provincial and below levels that are within budget
tens and even hundreds of millions to buy clothing for officials,
when he was able to buy clothes at a great price
even with his own money before he became the leader or official.

3. Work Hard, Not Relax.

The leaders have a big responsibility to deal with and
overcome various problems that plague society
lead to further direct the lives of the people to
can live a good life and true and to achieve progress and
welfare.

For that, the leaders are required to work hard with full sincerity
and optimism.

4. Serve, not arbitrary.

Leaders are servants to those they lead, because it becomes
leader or official means a great authority for
can serve the community with better services from the leader
previous

Therefore, every leader must have vision and mission of service
against the people they lead to improve the welfare
life, this means there is no desire at all to membohongin
people let alone sell the people, speaking on behalf of the people or
when in fact the people's interests for the sake of self, family
or golongannya.
If there are such leaders in our lives, then this is
The greatest betrayal.

5. Exemplary and pioneering, not Megan.

In all forms of goodness, a leader should be
exemplary and vanguard, rather than a yes-man who does not have
attitudes toward the values of truth and goodness. When a leader
called for honesty to the people they lead, then he has
demonstrate honesty. When he called for a simple life in
about the matter, then he shows the simplicity rather than luxury.
Very demanding community of leaders who can be a pioneer
and example in goodness and truth ..

From the explanation above, we can realize how important the position of
leaders for a society, therefore let us not be wrong
elect a leader, both in the lowest level such as
head house tanggai, the RT, the mosque committee, especially village heads and sub-district head
reached a high level such as parliamentarians, regents or mayors,
governors, ministers and presidents.


Therefore, the people who have proved unable to lead,
misuse of leadership for the mission that is not true and the people
which we doubt can lead to well and towards the good,
not feasible for us to entrust a leader.

Selasa, 02 Februari 2010

Peace of mind

is a story we should consider that describe the coolness and peace of mind.

The King held a contest and will provide ample reward to anyone who can paint about peace. There are many artists and painters worked hard to win the race. The King around to see the results of their work. There are only two paintings that really likes best. But, the King must choose one among them.

The first painting depicted a calm lake. Lake surface was like a perfect mirror of peace mematulkan mountains towering around it quiet. Plastered on top of blue sky with white clouds drifting-wine. All who looked at this painting will argue, this is the best picture of peace.

The second painting describes the mountains as well. But look rough and bare. On it painted a dark sky and red indicates rain storm, while the lightning was flashing wildly. On the side of the mountain there is a waterfall rushing foaming, did not show calmness and peace. But, the king saw something interesting, Behind the waterfall is growing small bushes on the sidelines of the stone. In the bush a mother sparrow nests laid. So, in the middle of the waterfall noise, a parent was incubating eggs Pipit
peacefully. It's really peaceful.

Which painting won the race?
The King chose the second picture.

Do you know why? because the King replied, "Peace does not mean you should be in place without any disturbance, trouble or hard work and busy. Peace is a quiet heart and peace, even if you are in the midst of great noise."

"Peace is a real paradise in this world."